forgiveness is a good thing, i gotta admit i can be pretty unforgiving but i am learning how to do it, it's really challenging.
it's very healing.
i can do it, forgive others but can i ever forgive myself?
and for what?
everything is tragically impermanent, things come into your life and they go, people, places, memories and even thoughts, it's all flow, a constantly ever changing flow, the dao, cannot be written about or understood with the mind. only it's metaphor.